after thoughts

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  • Mother’s Day

    This year has been particularly difficult on my mom. She’s homebound, probably in some pain, and can’t do yard work or do a garden, which some of her favorite things in the world. After everything and yadda yadda yadda, I’m glad she’s still with me, despite how ornery she is.     I know she’s ornery.   It… Read more

  • Adjunct noob

    Hey lolly lolly, a new term started. I’m monitoring ENGL102, which is a basic class, one step up from very basic, but students are required to take it.   It’s a small paycheck, but it’s a paycheck. A while back, this college started to attach co-instructors to the basic classes.    At first, I wasn’t overly thrilled.   … Read more

  • Yes, I have returned to Indiana from Florida and, gee, do I feel civilized. I had a doctor appointment on Monday, had one today, and have one scheduled for Friday.  Next week is the cancer doctor and some other doctor… I forget.   In June, I have a new foot doctor to see somewhere I’ve never… Read more

  • A rocky vent

    There’s this odd phenomena happening.   From my limited observations, this could be a global issue.  All I know is that it has happened in my home town, surrounding towns, and even in Florida. I think this happens when a bunch of people gather who have to much time, money, and misplaced good intentions. I really… Read more

  • his food / my food

    In the beginning, there was our-ish food. We would share a frozen Marie Callender’s frozen lasagna (family size).   I’d cook something or we’d just wind up snacking on stuff in the evenings after work.    If he worked late, I’d fix myself a really cheap cut of steak or just whatever there is. Sure, we didn’t eat… Read more

  • … and I walked.

    Since coming to Florida, I’m guessing that I’ve walked between five and 13-ish miles a day, save the one day that it was raining and a couple of days I stayed in to catch up on work. –   My mileage may vary, as I still can’t find the wire to charge the Fitbit, but today’s… Read more

  • It ends in zero.

    At one point, vampires where the thing. Everyone wanted to be a vampire, bitten by one, or at least watch a vampire movie.  Anne Rice and, to a lesser extent, Dracula where the social darlings. This was somewhere in the 1980s.  HIV and Aids became a very real and misunderstood fear.    It was thought to… Read more

  • And then suddenly…

    Things have been a little bumpy on this trip. It’s good, but bumpy.    Bumpy 99% of the time because of me, probably, maybe..  but that’s okay.   There’s going to be bumps.   But, overall, it’s going good.    I think we feel more natural with each other this time than last.  I realistically couldn’t ask for much… Read more

  • Comparison is not a sin

    In the House, we were told comparison was a sin. It was sin to compare what I have to what someone else has, to the way she or he looks, or even to how they act or behavior. I think the running theory was that the girls in the House needed to be happy with… Read more

  • Zoom Zoom

    Some three weeks ago, it finally happened. My beloved Mustang was sent to the scrap heap and we finally, sort of, acquired a new car.    It’s a lease, actually, but a welcome one. My mustang’s convertible top didn’t move, the windows didn’t go down, and the air conditioner was shot.  She shimmed when she went… Read more